P/s, this post is not directed to anyone in particular. It's kinda advice for myself as well. I'm in the mood where I give advice so yeah, bear with me or skip this post. :)

You never listen, that's why you never learn. You probe too much, you never stop to think. You're not using God's gift to you, your brain, you're not thinking. You can't always depend on someone else, you were born alone. No one was there to help you. They're not gonna be there to help you forever. Cold hard truth, I know, but it needs to be said.

First and for most, you gotta LISTEN. You have to, you MUST. Then you analyze, and you'll understand. If you don't, don't probe IMMEDIATELY. Think harder, think about it. You'll sure get around it. Then if you still don't get it, then don't be afraid to speak up and ask. :)

Don't be too dependant on others. It may seem like it doesn't affect them, but it does. Sooner or later, they'll get annoyed with you. EXHIBIT A IS ME HERE! My close friend stopped being friends with me just cause I kept asking her questions. Oh wow, shocker I know, but true.

So yes, everything starts with listening. A friendship, a relationship, whatever. So sometimes, just stop. And listen. You never know if you made someone's day or saved someone's life just by listening to them. They might be breaking inside and might be on the verge of suicide, despite their strong exterior, which might be all just an act.

Listen, it helps. What goes around, comes around. People will listen to you someday if you listen to them. :)

“ With chances taken, hopes embraced. And have I told you, I'm not going. Cause I've been waiting for a miracle, and I'm not leaving. I won't let you, let you give up on a miracle, when it might save you. ”
- Miracle! by Paramore. ♥

Alrights, hope I wasn't too fierce. I'm gonna go and I'll see you guys later. I love you, you're beautiful, bye! <3

Yours truly, xo.
;brendahayleyfizzy, xx.

Labels: Advice, LISTEN., Miracle, Paramore, Truth, You're beautiful.

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